2010.03.09 17:05:59

knoxtennman

Self-Imposed Chastity → Lockup of indeterminate length

I took the weekend off from chastity play since we had guests and I didn't want to have to worry about accidental discovery. I locked back up yesterday around noon with a short term, if somewhat undefined goal. You see, this week is spring break for my wife. As much as I would love to be in the sack with her every day this week, her monthly cycle started last Saturday. I am hoping that she will be done and ready to play as early as tomorrow.

Of course, there are some complicating factors. While my wife has never had what I'd call a high sex drive, it is particularly low in the days immediately following her period. Also, she has a mid-term on Monday of next week so she can't really just lounge around and relax all week long. Although I'm obviously hoping she'll realize we should not let this week go by without at least one round of mattress dancing, it would not be entirely out of character for her to announce that it's just not going to work. Or, at the very least, she will put it off until the last minute and then suddenly have a headache. I'm not just being pessimistic here. Plenty of precedence has been been established over our 20+ years of marriage for me to see this as a very possible outcome.

So anyway, my goal is to stay locked up until my wife is ready to have sex or Thursday afternoon at the earliest. I was going to wait until Friday afternoon but going that long without relief might negatively impact my performance should my wife decide she's in the mood.

avoiding detection | goals | sex

2010.02.24 15:42:46

knoxtennman

Self-Imposed Chastity → And Now For A Brief Moment Of Panic

Yes, I had a brief moment of panic yesterday. I had to go a county building yesterday and just before I left the house, it occurred to me that they may have metal detectors at the doors now. Although I've heard time and again that the little padlocks don't usually set off airport detectors, I figured with my luck, I'd be subjected to a strip search. Unfortunately, my main key is still locked in a key safe until sometime tonight or tomorrow. I only had two choices, risk it or use the emergency key.

My concern about using the emergency key was that while I didn't have time to fool around before leaving, I didn't trust myself to get locked back up ASAP when I got back home. Then I had what I think of was a pretty good, spur-of-the-moment idea. I grabbed the emergency key and one of those plastic locks that came with my CB-3000. On the way to the county building, I pulled into an empty parking lot along the way and swapped the plastic lock for the padlock. Problem solved! Naturally, when I arrived at my destination, I discovered they did NOT have detectors so all of this effort was unnecessary. Still, I'm glad I kept those plastic locks and somewhat proud of myself for maintaining my self-imposed chastity.

My original plan was just leave the plastic lock in place and use the notification from the keyholder website that it was time to cut the lock. However, I decided to go ahead and swap it back and take that opportunity to remove the 1/8" spacer taking me down from 1/2" to 3/8" in gap. I'm having to deal with the guide posts poke me, but I figured it be good to go at least 24 hours with the smaller gap before trimming the posts. Again, I deliberately made the swap very carefully without removing the cage and got the padlock locked back on before I could change my mind. I was very tempted to. The good news is that the smaller gap size is not causing any problems. I'll get it trimmed down tomorrow when I'm finally unlocked.

I am SO ready to be out of this cage. It's getting harder (pun intended) by the hour to just be patient and wait for the website to give me the combination to the key safe. It's even worse knowing it's very possible that they key will become available at a time when I either don't have privacy or close to a time when there's a possibility for sex with my wife.

adjustments | emergency key | avoiding detection