2010.03.09 17:05:59

knoxtennman

Self-Imposed Chastity → Lockup of indeterminate length

I took the weekend off from chastity play since we had guests and I didn't want to have to worry about accidental discovery. I locked back up yesterday around noon with a short term, if somewhat undefined goal. You see, this week is spring break for my wife. As much as I would love to be in the sack with her every day this week, her monthly cycle started last Saturday. I am hoping that she will be done and ready to play as early as tomorrow.

Of course, there are some complicating factors. While my wife has never had what I'd call a high sex drive, it is particularly low in the days immediately following her period. Also, she has a mid-term on Monday of next week so she can't really just lounge around and relax all week long. Although I'm obviously hoping she'll realize we should not let this week go by without at least one round of mattress dancing, it would not be entirely out of character for her to announce that it's just not going to work. Or, at the very least, she will put it off until the last minute and then suddenly have a headache. I'm not just being pessimistic here. Plenty of precedence has been been established over our 20+ years of marriage for me to see this as a very possible outcome.

So anyway, my goal is to stay locked up until my wife is ready to have sex or Thursday afternoon at the earliest. I was going to wait until Friday afternoon but going that long without relief might negatively impact my performance should my wife decide she's in the mood.

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