I'm always trying to find new ways to have fun, ejoyment and increase spiritual awareness in the bedroom with Steve, who uses a Lori tube with frenum piercing that allows his glans to be exposed. I love his semen for a variety of reasons and it something most women have a natural desire for. Recently we tried something that was very enjoyable and was good training for Steve. I laid on my side with a pillow between my thighs so my vulva was exposed and my legs drawn up a little. I told Steve to approach me from behind with the Lori still secured. This way he can't get fully erect and I don't have to worry about him wanting intercourse, which of course would be a natural urge for him. I told him to use glans and massage my clitoris and labia. Since he's circumcised his glans isn't very sensitive and of course the cowpers gland provided lubricant. I know he wanted more and to ejaculate but the Lori is quite good at stopping that. As he continued and I noticed him figiting I asked him if he was OK with this he said that more was coming out than clear liquid. I noticed I was lubricating (due to orgasm) and my vulva was very slippery. He didn't orgasm but semen did come out of his penis, and he was fighting on having an orgasm that he could have. I think what happened was he was so excited that the muscles involuntarily contracted around the prostate, etc and the semen oozed out. I realize it was frustrating for him but for me it was wonderful. It's actions like this that have be enabled by the chastity experience. Sharon

Hi Sharon,
Sounds like Steve had a ruined orgasm, without getting truly hard.
The Lori should have stopped any ejection of fluids, however semen can dribble out is the male has been denied for some long time (4weeks or more)

Steve sounds toooo... compliant to me.
I didnt think you and Steve were in a D/s relationship ?

I don't know exactly what to call our relationship, we just try to explore sensual things and Steve enjoys(and me, too!) the chastity part of it because he gets more satisfaction out of sex and he feels more masculine "servicing" me. He also realizes that denial increases his ability to make love. It's a mans instinct to want to take care of a woman in many ways, and sex is one of them. By the way, after we finished our vulva massage, as I call it, he removed the Lori device, got an erection and we had intercourse but he had a weak orgasm, but it took awhile and this was very exciting for me. I actually wanted penetration during the massage but enjoyed it so I guess I did a little self-denial myself. Sharon