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On the old lock and keep site I wrote an article about having intercourse with the purpose of procreation i.e. getting pregnant. I think this is exciting and quite natural. Although Steve and I don't have children I think that love making and nature come together so that we are naturally wired to do things in bed that lead to pregnancy. By this I mean that, for example, when a man gets close to ejaculation the scrotum gets tight so that more sperm are pressured into the vas defrens, etc., and the vagina and labia contract so as to stimulate the penis. Steve and I had one of those pillow talk conversations and he opened up regarding his feelings of what he tries to do during lovemaking and how it's been effected by us being involved in male chastity. (He uses a lori ring via frenum piercing.) Both of us are conservative regarding sex. By that I mean I don't believe that a man involved in marriage or a relationship with a woman should masturbate. And for example a mans semen is something that should be shared with his mate. He told me that when making love he feels like he's preparing my body to receive his energy, semen, and other male chemicals to keep the spiritual relationship going. I agree in that besides pregancy, semen acts as a bonding agent between a man and a woman. I guess that's why I desire it. Steve has had a vasectomy, so there are no sperm, but I still benefit from it and it gives him satisfaction. I think one of the advantages of having a man chasitised is that he is willing to devote more energy towards the lover/wife, rather than spending time gratifying himself. Sharon
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