I'm relatively new to being a Key Holder myself. My recent slave showed me what it ment to him and I've been experimenting and reading up on it.
It now has a big meaning to me. The feeling of his total submission to me, the thrill of having all this power.. It's amazing. We're both very happy!

But I've also discovered a side of myself that's new to me. I've never concidered myself to be the jealous type.. When he's into chastity this feeling gets triggered though. I get a very possessive feeling and we both enjoy it. No worries there either.

I just find it hard to explain this feeling to friends we got in the BDSM community. They know me as an openhearted person that doesn't make a big deal out of things. I don't mind my slave cuddling up to other women at all.
People wonder if I'm jealous and don't trust my slave. But that's not it, I do trust him. He has never done anything to make me doubt him. It's just this feeling I get of possesiveness when he's in chastity.

Can other KH's relate to this? Is it because I'm new to this feeling? How can I explain this feeling to others? It's weird that I feel boys in cb have a less hard time explaining it than I have.