I had a surprising new experience this weekend. After being away from ValleyMichael for a few days I was feeling pretty horny, and wanted to lock him up and have fun when I got home. Usually he asks me; as is fairly common, the whole chastity-play thing was his kink originally, and I'm still less likely to fantasize about it than him.

But he didn't want to!

Or rather, he did want to, but he has a huge deadline looming and can't afford to be distracted by the constant reminder of a belt. He asked me to please hold off for a few days. We still had sex, and I'm planning on locking him up in a few days, but it was really disappointing!

I know he's really busy and really stressed about this deadline, and I'd be a bad keyholder if I locked him up anyway. If I'm going to be in control, I need to have his wellbeing in mind, and in this case that included his professional wellbeing. Mature Morgan knows this. Bratty Morgan pouted a bit and is very impatient for Tuesday. She is also considering making ValleyMichael post embarrassing stories on locknkeep to make up for it.

Anyone else have stories about life getting in the way of chastity play?

Yes, and I was just as disappointed.
Thank you so much for posting! I love to hear from other key holders.
Actually this weekend it was chafing, not real life.

We negotiated that real life had to be respected and any time either of us needed a break, we could have it without repercussions. We have had unlocks for doctors visits, jogging, and other approved activities. He pays for those by wearing a nightgown to bed.

My sub (Maid Stephanie) is locked almost full time (CB-6000 so it’s comfortable and he says he can forget about it sometimes—so it doesn’t interfere with real life often). I typically let him out at least a full day on the weekend but when it was time to lock back up this weekend, he couldn’t because of the chafing.

I had never told him to lock up and been denied before. I was sincerely mad about it. This is a lifestyle choice we made together and I was already upset with him (he came without permission). Oh, it was a bad sub weekend! I had to take a deep breath and keep myself from over reacting, but it was obvious I was not pleased. I couldn’t hide that I was mad about the whole business. I was a foiled mistress and not in the least happy.

It actually started a great discussion of just how seriously I take our lifestyle choice. I’m not “playing” just for his gratification and it may have started as his kink, but now I am his mistress and key holder, and I expect to be obeyed. That became obvious this weekend to both of us.

I agree I would be a bad mistress and key holder if I didn’t have his wellbeing and health in mind.

So, nightgowns and maybe some embarrassing posts here until all is healed up. Thank you for the great idea!