i am the sub/slave/pet of Ms A and have been locked in a CB3k since 12-12-09. Ms A is a most generous Woman with allowing me, though it is more of an instruction, to share my submission to Her, with others. She feels it will further my journey and refine my submission to Her in all capacities. W/we are a straight couple and while Ms A has, in years past, attended social functions with other 'lifestyle' members, i have yet to reveal in the presence of others, my submissive character. i thank Mistress for respecting my limits in that regard and i am aware that i will be eventually serving Her properly and attentively at a 'lifestyle' social function in the future when my training, and especially my behavior has reached a level of acceptance by Her.

Thus far, my training has incorporated working my way into the wearing of Her black rhinestone studded collar. It has not been an easy task for me to achieve nor at times enjoyable, however it was a goal i desired.

Outside of O/our home W/we like others, do not project a Domme/submissive relationship as it would certainly tarnish O/our respective careers, etc. However behind closed doors, my collar goes on and my attire 'must' be in compliance with Her set rules.

i will first say that Mistress does NOT want a sissy-slave, though at first glimpse, one would think so. She likes a man to be a man; however in order to keep my mind, thoughts, actions, within that of being a true submissive, my attire ranges from and includes, leggings, tights, fishnet stockings, body stockings, along with assorted briefs, or accents (most of which are crotchless) allowing Mistress to view or see "Her" property (my cock and balls) displayed properly in chastity.

When doing chores or cleaning O/our home, i am to wear the apron of Her choosing, i.e. lace, satin, or another sheer material. Or at times She instructs me to be attired in a 'very pretty lace petticoat'. However that is usually only when i've demonstrated some ill-behaved attitude.

As She has stated very clearly, "this is meant only as a training method to ensure my station of submissiveness is intact."

Without these rules, Mistress knows that Her training will not be as effective or complete. Especially as She intends to at some point in time, entertain 'other' Mistresses for tea and/or dinner parties. Naturally, i will be serving "ALL" as She has determined my doing so, will be the ultimate in my achieving a 'true submissive" state of being. Again though, Mistress A does not want a sissy, nor intends to subject me to any bi-sexual activity.

And as with most individuals within this 'lifestyle' any failure of mine to meet my Mistress's set goals for my training and growth to become the proper sub, correction will be and has been a significant part of my training. Not to mention the fact that She finds it amusing, exciting, and most enjoyable to tease, deny, incorporate the use of Her crop, flogger, and at times - HER black leather 3" wide belt. Though, Mistress is not sadistic by nature, and i am not a pain pup, i have at times disobeyed or shown my 'alpha' character on more than one occasion and accordingly, received the proper discipline.

Naturally, there is 'play time' but i have been instructed to refrain from sharing those details at this time as Mistress A does not wish for me to expound upon 'those pleasures' at this time. She does wish for me to confirm with anyone who may read this blog, my last 'milking' was on December 10th, 2009, and while She will not be unlocking me today, She has just informed me, i am now going to be milked by Her, for Her, and will as i have been trained, clean my silver bowl afterward.

Lastly, by my admittance, and Her approving of my blog entry as i have been writing this; i enjoy having Mistress A milk me - completely and thoroughly. And yes, to "OTHER" Mistresses, Mistress A says, "the 'feel-doe' does accomplish this quite well even with keeping One's sub-slave and/or pet in their CB."

"Oh sure honey... it may be uncomfortable... but only for a while!" She snickers.