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2009.06.22 14:03:43

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Fitting the Birdlocked


1- In order to ease the wearing, I advise you to lubricate inside the ring and tube as well as the skin with a good quality water-based lubricant before fitting the cage.	-2 Push the two testicles, one by one, through the ring. It is easier to keep the cage tube aside to proceed.

3- You can now pass the penis through the ring and align the cage in its final position, the tube at the top.	4- Pull the tube upward and slide the penis inside it.

5- Place the closing strap around the ring and through the lower silicone stem then adjust it on the closing pin. You can then remove the lubricant with some soapy water, dry it off...and give the keys to your KH!	6- You can now lock you up...

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2009.05.07 10:52:50

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Comparing the Birdlocked and CB6000 in Pictures

Hello,

I promised to publish a comparaison pictures between the CB6000 and the Birdlocked.

So here they are :

As you see, the tubes are having the same length. Internal diameter of the birdlocked is a bit smaller. There are more venting holes on the birdlocked than on the cb6000. The tube angle is also not the same. The biggest difference, apart the material (silicone for the birdlocked and Polycarbonate for the cb6000) is the "A" ring width, about 3cm flat ring for the birdlocked against 1cm squares section for the cb6000.

Close-up of the tube opening:

CB6000 and the Birdlocked Comparaison, the tube opening

Best regards,

sweet

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2009.01.11 11:05:48

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TPE (Archives 2006)

By Steven S. Davis

"Total Power Exchange" was coined by Steven S. Davis in the newsgroup
alt.sex.bondage during his debates with Jon Jacobs in the mid 1990's.

In 1997 Davis gave this definition (apologies for Davis' writing style and use of
"hir" as a Politically Correct replacement for "him/her" or "them"):

A TPE (Total Power Exchange) relationship, sometimes described as an
absolute lifestyle d&s relationship (that such relationships can actually be neither "total" or "absolute" is agreed; these are ideal states to be worked towards but which will not be achieved, which is why TPE may be better seen as a process or goal than as a state), is a relationship in which no impediment to the exercise of the owner's power is accepted (some may, of course, exist, and what prudent owners do is to avoid direct collisions with these impediments, while working to overcome those that can be overcome (since the laws of gravity can't be overcome, a sane owner isn't going to ask a slave to fly (w/o appropriate equipment, of course), nor will a sensible owner try
push a slave into things that are hard limits for hir (but the owner might push a slave up against what the slave thinks are hard limits but which sie can in fact overcome)). Such things as safewords, contracts, negotiated limits, and anything else which recognizes / acknowledges / formalizes limits on the owner's power are inimical to TPE.
"Internal Enslavement" and "Total Power Exchange" cover much of the same ground. However, we feel that there are some marked problems with the term TPE.

BDSM | power exchange | total | TPE

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2009.01.08 15:56:05

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Emergence into BDSM (Archives 2006)

Initial poster : Miss Tory - Writer unknown

Emergence is a term sometimes used to describe the process that many
people experience when they 'find' either themselves or the lifestyle of BDSM. In many cases this begins when the individual is in their late 20's (for some women), mid 30's (for most men and women), to late 40's (for virtually everyone else). Often people become exposed to D/s after the break-up of a long term relationship, a divorce or during a 'mid-life crisis'. The internet has become one of the largest sources of D/s initiation in it's very short life time. Regardless of the actual trigger some things seem to remain fairly consistent in a majority of the newcomer's experiences.

lifestyle | BDSM | vanilla | emergence

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2008.12.26 15:15:47

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Rare but Intense BDSM, plus T&D (Archives 2007)

by sublocked

My wife is strange sometimes. Those who know me on this site realize she can go for weeks or months with no mention of BDSM, then suddenly, Wham!

Such was the case Saturday night. I had been locked for eight days (not long for me), and when I went into our bedroom at about 9:30, my wife called me from the walk-in closet that she needed help with something, so I went in and she was holding up a heavy chain and pointing to a hook in the ceiling. I had installed the hook at her instruction about 2 months earlier and had been waiting for this moment with both dread and anticipation.

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2008.12.26 14:55:02

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Go Stand In The Corner (Archives 2005)

By panty boy

My Mistress was mad at me for some reason or another, She doesn't even need a reason but She didn't like the tone of my voice when we were discussing our finances. She then told me to put on my wrist cuffs and my collar, go downstairs and bring my heavy duty nipple clamps and a bra and two socks also bring two clips for the cuffs. I obeyed and proceded to the basement. When She arrived She instructed me to put on the nipple clamps and the bra and stuff the bra with a rolled up sock. This put pressure against the clamps and pushed hard against my nipples. Then She took a clip and clipped my wrists behind me. Then taking the other clip She snapped it to the front of my collar...

real story | punishment | cb2000 | servicing

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2008.12.23 10:00:22

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Milking the Male Technique #4 (Archives 2004)

by Blackbayou

this Technique does not involve massaging the prostate.. I've been a believer in the "milking" procedure for male slaves. Some on this group/site may find it of interest. *** Male pleasure, from orgasm, occurs when there is strong pulsation as he expels the semen. The muscle contractions are what allow him gratification. If you want to deny pleasure, you must find a way to lessen the force of the contractions, yet extract a discharge of semen. You may remember your high school or college discussion of Pavlov and his dogs. He conditioned them so that they salivated upon hearing a bell ring. All animals, including humans, are subject to being conditioned in the same manner. Well, you do not want your slave salivating, you want him to come to orgasm by dribbling his cum, rather than having a pleasurable climax.

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2008.12.23 09:55:40

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Milking the Male Technique #3 (Archives 2004)

by Blackbayou

prostate milking by Mistress: The technique of prostate massage actually involves three organs of the male reproductive system: the prostate gland, the seminal vessicles, and the ampulla, which is the reservoir which actually holds the male sperm just prior to ejaculation. The prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger into the middle of the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is a rounded lump about the size of a large marble. It can also be accessed via the rectum, where it can again be felt as a rounded lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside the rectum. A better way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump.

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2008.12.23 09:49:46

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Milking the Male Technique #2 (Archives 2004)

by Blackbayou

My wife/kh and I practice teasing and denial. The only relief I get is through milking my prostate. We video the prostate milking parties for our own enjoyment. The best position is definately squatting. Have hubby squat over a medium sized mirror and place a thick book or object under the back end of the mirror facing the video camera. Aim the camera at the mirror. This way the camera catches all the action plus the dripping semen hits the mirror and slowly rolls down the slope of the tilted mirror. We find a 10 to 15 day load is perfect for milking.

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2008.12.23 09:46:45

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Milking the Male Technique #1 (Archives 2004)

by Blackbayou

Milking the male Technique #1 I am posting a few different techniques... In a few days. lets ask sweet how things are going.. Before anybody can understand how this is done I have to explain a bit about the male anatomy. But I am not a medical trained person. So some names may not be medical correct, but I think it is understandable in the way I have written this.